The Psychology of Sex

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The Psychology of SexVideo Description:Have you ever seen a beautiful girl with an ugly old man? You might think you know what's going on here - but there is more to it than it seems. Transcript:Sex. What are men and women really looking for? Here are some expert insights…The word “sex” can bring powerful images to mind.  But while your first thought might be of a scantily-clad model or George Clooney, human sexuality runs far deeper than the superficial appreciation of beauty. Evolutionary psychology can provide real insight into how both men and women approach sex.  While our conscious desire for sex seems to be governed by our physical attraction to others, our emotions, and our fears, we all have a fundamental instinct to reproduce that silently influences what we find attractive, how we feel, and what we fear.  Each gender’s approach to sex is influenced by the relative scarcity of their reproductive materials.  While males have an almost limitless number of sperm, females have relatively few eggs, so women typically put a higher “price” on their eggs. Given this, there are unique strategies that males and females employ to maximize their reproductive fitness.  For example, men are almost invariably more promiscuous than women.  This is because the most reproductively fit man wants to get as many females pregnant as possible.  For the same reason, men are instinctively attracted to traits that indicate health and fertility like glossy hair, shiny eyes, and a classic hourglass figure.  In fact, in many wildly different cultures the “ideal” female body is the same – one where the waist is 71% of the size of the hips.  Women have a different evolutionary imperative.  The physical toll of childbearing combined with the relative scarcity of eggs elevates the survival of each child to paramount importance.  A woman therefore wants a mate who will invest in her and in their child, and who can provide for the family.  The type of man that a woman is drawn to changes depending on how likely she is to reproduce. When ovulating, women tend to be more attracted to “solid” types, capable of caring for offspring, but when women aren’t ovulating, they go for more “good-looking” men with less concern about character.  There’s also an evolutionary basis for common relationship fears. A man naturally fears cuckolding, which is when his wife bears someone else’s child, as this prevents him from reproducing and redirects his resources to someone else’s progeny.  Women commonly fear that their mate might leave, a fear related to the evolutionary reality that this would undermine future procreation and impair their children’s chances of success.  Also, surprisingly, many activities like physical fighting may be indirect facets of sexual behavior: males fight other males to become dominant and dominant males get the chicks.  Sex is a fascinating topic.  The attractions and emotions which guide us in our sexual choices are often our body’s way of communicating a basic evolutionary instinct.  So, the next time you feel attracted to a co-worker ask yourself what your body is really saying.  If you are interested in learning more about this topic, check out other videos and sources on this subject. Category:Sex Skills/Training for Better Sex Tags:ass, attraction, beautiful, body, cum, ejaculation, erection, fertility, fuck, girls, Health, kegel, laid, Medicine, multiple, orgasm, penis, pleasure, porn, porno, pregnant, Psychology, pussy, Sex, sexual, sexy, sperm, tantric, tight, women, SexHealthGuru, Guru,
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