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Why do women keep vibrator use secret from male partners?

Expert:   Logan Levkoff Ph.D, Sex Educator »

Vibrator use is common, but talking about it - especially for some women - still ranks as taboo. Watch this if you want to get the conversation started!

Transcript: Vibrator use is common, but TALKING about it – especially for some women – still ranks as taboo. Women both in and OUT of relationships use vibrators regularly, but those IN relationships will SOMETIMES keep it a secret from their partners. n fact, research shows that women keep vibrator use a secret from male partners for several reasons --- most commonly, embarrassment, followed by not knowing how to tactfully weave the subject into conversation, along with the fear of sexually intimidating their partner.First you should NEVER feel embarrassed about your sexuality. It’s part of your person as a whole and should be embraced. But if your partner is intimidated by your vibrator use, you should emphasize to your partner that a vibrator isn’t a replacement, it’s an enhancement to your sex life together. More »

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