Pleasuring Him, Orally

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[x]   Transcript: Logan: A question that a lot of women have is, how do I know if I'm giving a good blow job? How do I know if I'm doing the right thing? And if I'm not, what am I supposed to do? Ian: I think one of the things' I think women are under a lot of pressure of course, from porn you see women doing things during oral sex that most women are not so comfortable with' Logan: Definitely not comfortable with' Ian: The main thing I want to say as a guy, is that a woman should really be comfortable with it and be into it. The hottest thing to a guy is a woman who is enjoying what she is doing and isn't nervous about it or worried about it. That said, I think a lot of women, just like guys don't get to see how a woman would self pleasure herself, a lot of women don't get to see a guy do it. For a lot of women who are wondering about oral sex tips, think about a combination of friction and pressure. That's what it really comes down to, friction at the head of the penis and pressure at the base of the penis. Oral sex is not just about the mouth. It is about your mind, your mouth, and your hands. And it is really about getting completely involved and enjoying what you're doing. Logan: And I think is also about making sure we're getting constant feedback from our partners. Following their body language, listening to cues, listening to breathe patterns. We can tell if someone is into it or if they're just kind of lying there and not all that interested too. Ian: Yeah, men will also loose their erections during oral sex. Logan: That would be a good sign. Ian: That would be sign. Logan: For more tips like these, check out other videos in this series.

[x]   Bio:

Ian Kerner, Ph.D, is a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author of numerous books for Harper Collins, including "She Comes First" and "Love in the Time of Colic." He appears frequently on the Today Show and CBS Early Show and lives his wife and two boys in New York City. He holds advanced degrees from New York University and is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. For more about Ian, visit www.iankerner.com and check out www.goodinbed.com.

Logan Levkoff , Ph.D, is an expert on human sexuality, relationships, and sexual health. She appears frequently on TV including Good Morning America, the Today show, and CNN, and the New York Times has featured her work with teens and parents. Logan is the author of "Third Base Ain't What it Used to Be: What Your Kids are Learning About Sex Today" and "How to Teach Them to Become Sexually Healthy Adults" (NAL/Penguin) and is an AASECT certified sex educator. She received her Ph.D. in Human Sexuality, Marriage, and Family Life Education from New York University and an M.S. in Human Sexuality Education from the University of Pennsylvania. She lives in New York City with her husband, son, and daughter. For more, check out www.loganlevkoff.com or follow her on Twitter @LoganLevkoff.