Sex: Get Inside Your Partner's Mind
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Want to read your lover's thoughts? This video teaches you how.
Transcript: If you could only read your partner's thoughts, you'd be the best lover ever, right? The first step to...
If you could only read your partner's thoughts, you'd be the best lover ever, right? The first step to reading your partner's mind is to learn what he or she fantasizes about! Luckily, someone else has done the research that can help. In a study of hundreds of people, the fantasies of men and women differed-a lot! So guys, what do women want? Most women fantasize about the emotional aspects of their partner. So let her see your softer side! Women also envision men focusing intently on their bodies-you know how to make THAT come true! And ladies, what do guys crave? Men fantasize about looking at a partner's body. So let go of inhibitions and do it with the lights on! They also imagine multiple partners. But ladies, you don't have to hop in bed with a girlfriend! They also imagine variety, and you can deliver that one!More »
Last Modified: 2012-12-28 | Tags »
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If you've ever wanted to have multiple orgasms, the good news is that most woman can. Watch this video to find out how.
Transcript: Ever wish you could turn orgasm into more-gasm? Here's good news: Most women are built to cum again...
Ever wish you could turn orgasm into more-gasm? Here's good news: Most women are built to cum again and again. So once you ride the first wave, you can catch another! With that in mind, women who experience multiple-orgasms do so in large part, because they know that they can. After all, if you tell yourself that one orgasm signals "end," your body will stop engaging at that point. A great way to prepare for multiple climaxes is to pump up your pubococcygeus, or PC, muscles! Find them by stopping your stream of urine when you go to the bathroom. Your PC muscles can be the key to multiple orgasms, since pulsing them during sex increases blood flow, allowing you to maintain arousal. Another secret? Aim to orgasm for the first time before he enters you. If you have one big-O early, you're likely to have another post-penetration. As you begin these exercises, focus on stimulating multiple body parts at a time. Studies show that's actually the quickest way to, well...double your pleasure!More »
Last Modified: 2013-03-01 | Tags »
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Foreplay is an important part of a great sexual experience, especially for women. Learn many foreplay tips in this video.
Transcript: Is foreplay really important? ...Is the moon round? Sarcasm aside, foreplay is the cornerstone of a...
Is foreplay really important? ...Is the moon round? Sarcasm aside, foreplay is the cornerstone of a great sexual experience for both of you. Without it, well...sex can suck! Foreplay is particularly important for women, who need constant stimulation to reach full arousal-and to orgasm. Luckily, there is no "right" way to engage in foreplay. Fondle, undress, kiss, lick, tease, hug...your mattress moves are up to you. But during foreplay, linger longer! Women generally crave a slower, lighter touch than men. It's called teasing, and you can do it! When pleasing her pre-sex, one thing is universal, and that's that foreplay begins in a woman's brain. So, compliment your partner, focusing on her sexy physical attributes, or the amazing way she makes you feel. Foreplay is a learning experience ...you're learning what makes her hot, so that when you do reach intercourse, the sex is sizzling!More »
Last Modified: 2012-11-17 | Tags »
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Can you tell the difference between a water-based lubricant and a silicone-based lubricant? If your answer is no, then check out this video to learn more about personal lubricants.
Transcript: What's slippery, sensual and tons of fun? Your sex life-on lubricant! Lubricant is great, but not all...
What's slippery, sensual and tons of fun? Your sex life-on lubricant! Lubricant is great, but not all forms are created equal! The most popular are the water-based brands. Water-based lubricants, like Astroglide and Liquid Silk, are designed for use with sex toys and latex contraceptives, like condoms and diaphragms. These formulas are designed to be non-irritating to the body-good news for people with sensitive skin. The downside? They dry up faster than other forms of lube. Meanwhile, silicone-based lubricants can't be used with silicone sex-toys, but they're fine with latex. Silicone lubes, like Uberlube, last longer than water-based ones. Finally, oil-based lubricants, like Vaseline, are an option for some sex play, like hand jobs. But these lubes are NOT safe with latex, however, as they can break down the material! No matter which lube you love, safe sex is the sexiest sex, so be smart about protection.More »
Last Modified: 2012-10-12 | Tags »
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There are lots of things that can make for better sex and breathing is one of them! Watch this video for tips on how to breathe for better sex.
Transcript: Its probably not what youre thinking about when youre having sex, but your breathing can have a huge...
Its probably not what youre thinking about when youre having sex, but your breathing can have a huge impact on what you get out of the experience. When youre having sex, its natural to focus on the person you are with and the sensations you are experiencing. What you may not realize is that while your attention is on these pleasurable pursuits, your breathing is what sets the tempo for the experience, and when you are in the bedroom, good rhythm is an awful lot better than bad rhythm. Think about your breath like the drummer in your own personal band: the drums percussive beat isnt always the sound in the forefront, but it sets the pace and ties the beat together by giving it a cadence. Breath works the same way during sex. No one is suggesting that you think about breathing during sex. But, a little bit of preparation can help you keep a better rhythm in bed, and maybe even play an extra set or two. There are some simple exercises you can than can do to enhance your breathing and improve your sex life. When you are doing these exercises, think about this: its not just that better breathing means a better sexual rhythm improved breathing also means better blood flow, which can give you a stronger erection or enhanced sensation in your clitoris. Both of which are rather desirable during sex. Now that Ive got your attention Im going to show you some breathing exercises you can do on your own. Deep abdominal breathing is the key to breathing for better sex. This is how you do it: There are also breathing exercises that you can do with your partner. Although these exercises provide the same benefits as the other exercises, they also can be intimate and intensify the impact of using breath to enhance your sex life. Breathing in tandem.Its okay if you arent convinced yet lots of people are skeptical at first. But heres the thing all of the skeptics are people who havent tried it. Give it a real effort for a couple of weeks and then well see if you are still a skeptic. See you later! Want to have even more Better Sex? Check out other videos in this series for lots of ways to get the most out of your sex life.More »
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Sex can become amazing for you and your partner if you have more endurance and strength - and practice makes perfect! So watch this video to learn about training for better sex.
Transcript: Sex really is an athletic event - and some people are better at it than others. Just like any other athletic...
Sex really is an athletic event - and some people are better at it than others. Just like any other athletic event, getting good at sex requires a bit of preparation and training. Coach Kendra is going to show you a number of exercises you can do to become world-class at this event. Sex is always fun. But sex with someone who is really good at it can be amazing. Ready to be amazing? I'm going to show you the exercises that will get your body in shape for incredible sex. There are three things you'll need to be great at this - power, agility, and endurance. Let's start with power. Kegels are the best exercise to help you build sexual power, and they can be done by both men and women. The first step is to isolate the right muscle. The next time you are in the bathroom, try stopping and starting the flow of urine. The muscles you are contracting are the ones you need to focus on. For women, strengthening these muscles gives you the abilty to contract more tightly. For men, strengthening these muscles can give you increased stamina, allowing you to maintain your erection for a longer time before you have an orgasm. This gives you a greater ability to satisfy your lover as well as the capability to ejaculate more powerfully which means a more intense orgasm for you. As a side note it also enables you to shoot further, "if you have any use for that." To strengthen these muscles, simply tighten and relax them over and over, about 200 times a day. This exercise is known as the basic kegel. When this exercise starts to get easy, there are more difficult variations, like elevator kegels, where you tighten slowly, pausing and holding at intervals along the way, like an elevator stopping on several floors. As these muscles strengthen, you'll gain endurance as well, much like a professional runner who can run faster on stronger legs. Men can actually train with an advanced form of kegel exercise and learn how to do something normally considered a uniquely female skill - have multiple orgasms. When a man can regularly lift up his testicles with a kegel, he can add resistance by draping a towel over the shaft of his erect penis and lifting slowly up and down. Eventually, this exercise may allow a man to orgasm without ejaculation and to reach multiple climaxes. Strong abdominal muscles build a powerful core-it's your core muscles that allow for you to be a more precise and skillful lover. Building your stomach muscles helps you gain control over your movements, giving you great agility, but also to increase strength and endurance. Here are some ab exercises that will get your body in shape and give you great game in bed. There is one more exercise that can really help if you want to become an incredible lover. Sex is about more than just core strength - you don't want the rest of your body letting you down at the wrong time. I'm going to show you a quick exercise to help build up the muscles you'll use most when you are in traditional sexual positions. These exercises will help you get into the best sexual shape of your life. But remember, excellence isn't just about training; it's also about putting that training into action. So make sure you're putting your new skills to good use. And remember, if you don't see an immediate improvement, well, practice makes perfect...More »
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Lots of people eat to please their stomachs, but eating can please your sexy parts too! Check out this video for more information on aphrodisacs and better sex.
Transcript: Everybody enjoys having sex, but did you know that the secret to a more powerful orgasm is probably available...
Everybody enjoys having sex, but did you know that the secret to a more powerful orgasm is probably available in your local grocery store? When you drink caffeine, you feel energetic. Eat too much turkey, and it's probably nap time. A little bit of chocolate can lift your mood... Everybody knows that certain kinds of food can have an immediate, tangible effect on the body. Want to know which foods can have an immediate, tangible effect on your sex life? Well, do you? Certain foods really do have the ability to enhance your experience in bed. For example, some foods can dramatically improve circulation. Now, you're probably asking why you should care about circulation. I'll tell you why - better circulation means increased blood flow to your penis or clitoris, which greatly improves your ability to receive sexual stimulation. This means you get to have much more powerful orgasms. If you are looking for an immediate boost in circulation, try adding some spice to your love life. When you eat spicy food, there is a release of endorphins, which provides your body with a natural high that accompanies the rush of spice-heat. Your blood starts flowing more quickly, improving your circulation and intensifying your sexual sensations. Some spices to incorporate into your diet are chili pepper, jalapeo, red pepper, and ginger. If you are looking for a more sustained increase in circulation, try eating lots of foods that contain L-arginine, an often overlooked amino acid. Foods rich in L-arginine include granola, root vegetables, garlic, ginseng, walnuts, and soybeans. This isn't the only way that food can help your sex life. Cultures throughout the ages have used aphrodisiacs to increase their sex drive and sexual excitement. The ancient Romans were said to make use of such exotic aphrodisiacs as hippo snouts and hyena eyeballs, and the Chinese were known to prefer rhino horn, but I'm going to tell you about some aphrodisiacs that you can get a hold of more easily. There are probably a lot more aphrodisiacs than you realize. You've probably heard that oysters are an aphrodisiac, and that's true. While oysters have an effect on both men and women, oysters are notably high in zinc, which is needed for testosterone production, an important part of a man's ability to get and maintain a strong erection. Chocolate is another classic aphrodisiac. When consumed, dark chocolate releases two naturally-occurring mood lifters. Our brains release these substances into our nervous system when we're happy, or when we are experiencing feelings of love or lust. These substances also induce euphoric feelings that increase sexual excitement. Other foods that are genuine aphrodisiacs include figs, bananas, eel, and ginseng.One last thing - sex may be the most incredibly fun athletic activity on the planet... But it is an athletic activity. The right food can provide you with enough fuel to maintain a high energy level for hours. If you want to compete at a world class level you need to have the energy to last the whole game. You can get what you need to keep you going from complex carbohydrates found in whole grain breads, fruits, vegetables, and brown rice. Try experimenting with different aphrodisiacs and with a variety of the foods that can intensify your sexual pleasure. Eventually, you'll find the foods that work for you. One word of caution: once you've found what works for you, it will change the way you think about going grocery shopping. Want to have even more Better Sex? Check out other videos in this series for lots of ways to get the most out of your sex life.More »
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You may think you know all about a male's private parts, but do you really? Watch this video for a guide to the penis.
Transcript: A man's genital anatomy is much more than his penis. The male penis, which is the shaft that hangs outside...
A man's genital anatomy is much more than his penis. The male penis, which is the shaft that hangs outside of his body, generally lies limp. When arousal occurs and the penis fills with blood, however, it becomes erect. The testicles lie on either side of the penis. Their purpose is two-fold: To produce both sperm and the sexual hormone, testosterone. The testicles are surrounded by a thin membrane of skin called the scrotum. The scrotum acts as a temperature-control center for the testicles, keeping them slightly cooler than the rest of the body to ensure a pleasant climate for sperm. After the body produces sperm in the testicles, they are held in the epididymus, which is adjacent to the testicles, and then the sperm through a tube called the vas deferens. From the vas deferens, of course, the sperm travel to the penis to be ejaculated. The urethra is a tube that runs within the penis to transport urine and semen. And, surrounding the urethra at the penis's base, is the much talked about gland called the prostate. Although the prostate can be a source of pleasure, its reproductive purpose is to create a fluid that contains and nourishes sperm. This white, sticky fluid combines with sperm to create the ejaculatory substance known as semen. If you think the penis is complicated, though...check out all the parts that compose the vagina in our other videos!More »
Last Modified: 2013-05-16 | Tags »
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There are many things about female anatomy that are unknown to men, and even women themselves. Unravel the mystery of the female anatomy by watching this video.
Transcript: Think you're a vagina expert? Well here are five facts you've never heard before! Her hot spots have...
Think you're a vagina expert? Well here are five facts you've never heard before! Her hot spots have something very interesting in common with a shark! Vaginal lubricant is a melting pot of ingredients, from lactic acid to squalene, an ingredient also found in sharks' livers! But her natural lubrication isn't just for getting hot and heavy! Sex leaves women mentally alert because it takes them between 15 to 30 minutes to return to a pre-aroused state, while guys come down immediately. And how long does that sex take? According to studies, the average experience is 2 minutes and 50 seconds. Yet women generously rated these same sessions as "feeling" like 5 minutes and 30 seconds...so there's hope for the quickie!More »
Last Modified: 2013-05-16 | Tags »
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Looking to spice things up? Check out these facts about male anatomy to help you along.
Transcript: Think you know everything there is to know about the penis? Think again! No matter your gender, you'll...
Think you know everything there is to know about the penis? Think again! No matter your gender, you'll be surprised to hear these five shocking facts about the male genitals! There are two types of penises, one which expands and lengthens when it becomes erect, and one which doesn't change much in size during erection. Surveys say that 79 percent of men have the former type, while 21 percent have members that remain more or less the same size at all times. Interestingly, smoking can actually shorten your penis by as much as a centimeter! That's because a hard penis requires great blood-flow, and cigarettes stifle that circulation. No matter the size of the member, however, the average male orgasm lasts six seconds. Meanwhile, the average intercourse session lasts just three to seven minutes. There you go: five things you didn't know about your (or his!) magnificent member.More »
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Even if you think you're an expert on male anatomy, there are probably still a few things you don’t know. Check out this video for all the facts you didn’t know about his genitals.
Transcript: Even if you're a penis expert, there are at least five things you don't know about his member! Here's...
Even if you're a penis expert, there are at least five things you don't know about his member! Here's a wacky fact for you: Although it's likely that all men have tried it, only one man in 400 is flexible enough to give himself oral pleasure. But no matter how you do it, it's important to be careful during those masturbation sessions! The most common cause of penile rupture is masturbation. Fact three: You don't need a brain to ejaculate! That order comes directly from the spinal cord. What about reproduction? Turns out that better-looking men have better swimming sperm. The proof comes from a study that showed that men rated "most handsome" by women produced the strongest sperm. In addition, the longer the penis, the better "semen displacement" - that's babies made - when having sex. Who knew the penis was so full of strange secrets? If you want to learn more of them, check out other videos in this series!More »
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Do women masturbate? Is masturbation healthy for women? Get all the facts on women and masturbation, once and for all.
Transcript: "The percentage of females who masturbate may be larger than you think. Up to 81 percent of women say...
"The percentage of females who masturbate may be larger than you think. Up to 81 percent of women say they masturbate! While the majority of women stimulate themselves solo, more than 50 percent admit to feeling guilty about it. Here, we'll debunk the myths surrounding masturbation. It was once thought that men "had" to masturbate, while women had no such need. Despite being untrue, many such negative ideas about female masturbation stuck. Interestingly, masturbation provides a host of health benefits for women. A recent study noted that masturbation is a natural sleep aid for many women. In addition, solo sex can often provide pain relief from menstrual cramps and sore joints. But perhaps the best reason for women to masturbate is simply that it leads to self-discovery. Because female orgasm is not as automatic as male orgasm, masturbation can help a woman learn about what works for her. Solo sex is nothing to be ashamed of! So why not schedule a session today?More »
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Are you wondering what her surprising sex spots are? Watch this video to find out how to make the foreplay more fun, and take your sex life to the next level.
Transcript: "Sure, she loves when you flick her nipples, but her most common "hot spot" isn't where you think it...
"Sure, she loves when you flick her nipples, but her most common "hot spot" isn't where you think it is! According to recent polls, a woman gets most aroused when a partner touches her hair gently. Sound crazy? The scalp contains millions of nerve endings, which feel amazing when stimulated. Meanwhile, running hands through hair is a primal form of nurturing. You know, like when monkeys pick nits off one another! Women also admit to loving it when someone kisses their shoulders. That's because she expects you to show desire by making a beeline for her "obvious" erogenous zones. A gentle kiss in a surprising location indicates that her pleasure is a priority, and frees her to take the time she needs to get primed for intercourse. Now that you know her top hot spots, why not put them into play in the bedroom tonight?More »
Last Modified: 2012-10-18 | Tags »
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